How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 19:25

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Cum at omnis doloremque totam.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Russia’s central bank cuts interest rates for first time since 2022 - Financial Times

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

When do you start "growing old"?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Marchand, Bennett, Ekblad want to remain with Panthers, aim for Stanley Cup 3-peat - NHL.com

Does not procrastinate.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

In pictures: Glastonbury Festival day four so far - BBC

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Musk-Trump rupture poses a serious threat to NASA and Pentagon programs - The Washington Post

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Is the Donald Trump Bible any different from a regular Bible? Has Trump altered its contents?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What’s Behind PayPal’s Will Ferrell Ads? - WSJ

That's it for today.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Flash floods kill 3 in West Virginia, several people missing after inches of rain fell in 30 minutes - CBS News

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What I need from you?

Ask yourself:

What are the ten cars that make me no longer feel inferior?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Cliffhanger's Black Panther game reportedly would have built upon the famously patented Nemesis System - Rock Paper Shotgun

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

NBA Finals’ 17 best players ranked for Thunder vs. Pacers series - SBNation.com

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Indiana Pacers assistant Lloyd Pierce taking lessons for next opportunity as head coach - Andscape

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.